A woman seeking marriage advice already knows the answer: ‘Something is wrong’

Writing her story on social media for others to view and share, the woman said she has been with her boyfriend for five years and the couple have been engaged for four months – but since the wedding will continue in the coming months, she is not sure what. to do.

“So far, I’ve been very happy,” he wrote on Reddit. “But there’s a pit in my stomach that I’ve been trying to ignore. Something’s wrong.”

He commented to others, “Any advice is appreciated, especially if you’ve had similar feelings.”

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She said: “For the last two years, it feels like I’ve fallen out of love. The man I was obsessed with – I look at him and feel a lot of anger. I still love him, but I don’t love him. Like him.”

He learned, he added, that “her mother hates me too – I know I’m going to marry her and not her mother, but finding that out feels like my breaking point.”

He called his family “bad people” and said he “doesn’t want to be involved in that again, nor any children we may have.”

Members of his own family, on the other hand, he shared, “were kind and welcoming to him. They respected him completely, while all the efforts I made to be part of his family were completely blocked. I am very hurt, ashamed. and lonely.”

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The economy of this event is worrying, he says.

“I’m afraid of the scandal and the backlash of the family.”

“So far, we’ve paid $800 for a non-refundable hotel room, a $1,600 deposit on our property and, if we cancel, [we] you will be charged another $2,000,” said the woman, who goes by the name “ImaginaryKick5478.”

He said the rest of the expenses “will be covered by the family.”

He continued, “I know people will say that an annulment is cheaper than a divorce, but I don’t have $4,500 to cover dead money.”

“I feel like I’m on autopilot,” the bride wrote on Reddit, “and time is running out before the crash.” (Stock)

The woman said “most importantly, I’m afraid of the shame and rejection of the family. My father loves my partner very much and thinks there’s nothing wrong, and he wouldn’t stand up for me if we broke up.”

He said that no one “can be a support system in my life, and that alone is probably the reason why I’m still married. I feel like I’m walking on my own, and time is running out before the accident. .”

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He said he has been suffering from “real panic” over the idea of ​​”dealing with a difficult separation at a time when there is a family involved and which may always reflect him and our failed relationship.”

“Leaving” a relationship, he said, “is easier said than done.”

The woman added, “I bring all these feelings directly to my boyfriend, and he thinks I’m surprised and upset and my feelings will pass. I wish you knew that I’m out of love. More importantly, I wish I still loved him the way I did.”

“I’d rather be in an unhappy marriage,” wrote a woman on social media, than have certain things happen to her. (Stock)

He continued, “I feel like being with him was a big mistake in my life, and I wish I could take it back.”

Yet “leaving” a relationship, he said, is “easier said than done.”

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He wrote: “I would be ruined financially and destroy my relationship with my immediate family, and I’d rather be in an unhappy marriage than have those two things happen.”

“Is there anything else I can do, or is this going to get worse?”

She ended her post this way: “I’m trying to hang on to this relationship and do what I can to avoid ending it, but I know time is running out. Couples therapy? Weekend getaway? Is there anything else I can do, or is this going to get worse?”

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So far about 1,200 people have responded to this drama. Commenters on Reddit were blunt and direct about the original poster, with some suggesting that the woman already knew the answer to her problem.

“I don’t see any other option but to call off the wedding,” wrote another.

“What is absolutely unacceptable is lying and deceiving someone – especially a loved one,” said the psychologist. (Stock)

Said another, “Stop pleasing people and have fun.”

One said, in part, “I think if you have to ask, you know the answer deep down.”

Wrote another in detail, “The price you pay to get out of your current situation will be far, far cheaper than the price you pay to leave with the kids (from a divorced father of five).”

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Another person said, “Sis, you know what’s going on.”

A psychiatrist recently told Fox News Digital, responding to a different but similar marriage drama, “It’s totally unacceptable to lie and deceive someone – especially a loved one.”

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The psychologist said she would “encourage” the struggling partner to “talk privately with each family member involved, starting with the closest” — and seek to let others know what’s going on so the problem can be resolved.